The Second Agreement Ruiz

If you hold this agreement, you can travel the world with your heart and no one can hurt you. They can say “I love you” without fear of being ridiculed or rejected. You can ask what you need. His best-known book, The Four Agreements, was published in 1997 and has sold about 10 million times in the United States[9] and has been translated into 46 languages. The book advocates the personal freedom of convictions and agreements we have made with ourselves and with others, which create use and unhappiness in our lives. [10] It was broadcast on the television show Oprah. [11] The four agreements are: The second agreement simply says: Don`t take anything personally. All of this said that if you are in friendship with someone whose words or actions harm them, it is healthy to set limits, create boundaries and honor you. You can experience great feelings, and these are all real and valid. Feeling hurt doesn`t mean taking something personal. However, in the healing process, it will be important to practice this agreement and ensure that the person`s actions were not above you and/or your worth. I think all four are equally important, this agreement has had the greatest impact on my life…. Some of my favorite takeaways from this deal: -Don`t eat the emotional garbage of others! – Stop inflicting unnecessary suffering on me.

– Choose to always follow my listening. But if you don`t take it personally, you are immune in the middle of hell. Immunity in the midst of hell is the gift of this agreement. His son, Don Jose Ruiz, then published a sequel with his father, entitled The Fifth Agreement, adding another chord:[14] Don`t take anything personally. This is the second chord of Don Miguel Ruiz`s classic,”The Four Accords.” I need a memory today. So I open his book on this and I read that this agreement is so difficult for me. I have always considered myself strong and confident, authentic and confident. Recently, when I really tried to get out of my head and realize how scared I was to disappoint someone.

I try to show people what they want in me, because they are only the parts of me that they accept and approve of, and they hide the real me. Of course, this is because I take almost everything personally. It`s an opening of the eyes to see that… And yet, I don`t know how to change it. How can I believe that I am good enough or even wonderful enough? And if it were me, others wouldn`t see that? I feel like when I tell myself I`m doing things, another of my mental tricks.

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